In all cultures around the world there are times of the year to show our love and appreciation to those who touch our lives, including our parents, family, friends, neighbors, clients, customers, staff, suppliers, vendors, colleagues, associates, and so on. However, you need not wait until a special day to show appreciation for a job well done or gratitude for a special favor.  While there are infinite ways to show appreciation, here are eight ideas to consider:

1. Holiday Cards: This is the most popular way we share our greetings during any holiday season, yet many people send a pre-printed signature card without writing at least a little personal note. No one likes receiving generic cards. Write a small note.

2. Personal Notes: A personal, handwritten note indeed shows your love, whether you write it on a holiday greeting card or any piece of paper. The point is that you took the time to write. A personal note is precious if your company discourages gift-giving. A note can say volumes, all by itself.

3. Gifts and gift cards: If giving a gift for any occasion, take the time to choose a gift you know the person will like. Please don’t wait until the last minute to purchase it under stress. Instead, buy gifts throughout the year whenever you see something you think a particular person will appreciate. Find out which store the person likes best for gift cards, and buy your card there.

NOTE: Be careful when purchasing gift cards that the store or company will be in business for the following year.

4. Meals and special events: One of my favorite ways to show appreciation is to invite someone to my home or out to a restaurant for a meal. I also enjoy inviting people to be my guests at a special event. It’s a great way to spend time together and support an event. The key is sharing time together.

5. Days off: Some companies give their staff a week or two off for vacation.  Some of the entire week between Christmas and the New Year is off. Others give employees their birthdays off. Have fun thinking up a surprise day off for your company.

6. Money: In Asian culture, the most popular way of giving gifts is in red envelopes for various occasions.  In the Western culture, year-end and holiday bonuses are more typical.

7. Trips: Based on achieving company goals each year, one company I know treats the entire staff to a one-week, all-expenses paid trip to Hawaii. Although extravagant, perhaps other trips can be something to consider.

8. Telephone calls and personal visits: We all love receiving calls from friends with whom we haven’t connected. Reconnect with loved ones, especially the elderly, who may live alone or in a rest home.

Most importantly, don’t wait for a memorable holiday to do the above. Set your plan of action to show appreciation and gratitude anytime throughout the year.

Enjoy…  and Happy Practicing!

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  1. The expressions of appreciation and gratitude are much different from other expressions of hate and love. You wrote a beautiful article on these two sorts of expressions.

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